Richard Keys has opened up on being sacked by Sky Sports and the furore that followed sexist comments he and colleague Andy Gray made about assistant referee Sian Massey-Ellis. Keys and Gray have not discussed the matter on UK TV for 10 years since the incident. The long-time broadcast duo questioned whether Massey-Ellis knew the offside rule and suggested a mistake must have been made for a woman to be an assistant in the Premier League.
Keys and Gray made the comments privately in the Sky Sports studio but the audio was later leaked. Keys called Massey-Ellis the next day and alleges that the 37-year-old accepted his apology.
The comments – made in January 2011 – included Gray questioning: “Can you believe that? A female linesman?” Keys quipped that someone should go into the stadium to teach Massey-Ellis the offside rule. Both were later forced to leave Sky.
Asked if he regrets what was said about Massey-Ellis, Keys told Piers Morgan on TalkTV: “Of course, yes. I questioned whether a young lady from Coventry, my hometown, would know the offside law as she made her debut. A female linesman.
“I, on air, because I wasn’t sure who her father was, as we went to kick-off said – ‘and we also have a female assistant, good luck to her, I don’t know I may have gone to school with her dad, she’s from my manor. All the very best to her.’
JUST IN: Foden ‘would start for Brazil’ claims Neville despite England snubs
“She made a number of errors first half that I was insistent we didn’t show. Nor did we. She got one absolutely spot on, the goal that was scored against Liverpool. When I spoke to her the following day, she was great. She said, ‘Hey come on!’ Of course [I rang her to apologise]. She more than accepted it and said, ‘I expected this last week, it’s just a bit of fun, come on Keys.’
“I’d never really come across the word banter. She said: ‘Oh come on it’s just banter.’ That I suppose stuck in my mind. I said, ‘No, no, Sian this is really serious now. It’s got a life of its own. I have to make this an official apology on behalf of myself and Andy.’
“She said: ‘Oh by the way a couple of things first half that you didn’t show, thanks for that!’ We’re not in that business! In isolation, my questioning whether she knew the offside law was unacceptable.”
At the time, Keys apologised but defended his words as ‘banter’. He added: “I hate the word banter. I’d never used it. But Sian said it to me and I suppose that was in my head.
Ronaldo’s intriguing celebration as Qatar pitch invader gets support
Nuno Mendes leaves pitch in tears after suffering injury at World Cup
Cristiano Ronaldo plays outrageous shoulder pass at World Cup
“At the time when you’re on the defensive, cause you can’t get your head round what’s going on. It’s an extraordinary place to be. You [Morgan] have set the dogs on many in a different role and you’ve been on the receiving end. It’s a terrible place to be.”
Keys was asked if he might have done things differently in the aftermath of his dismissal. He replied: “Yes. I would’ve accepted quicker that what people were saying to me was accurate and I would’ve understood sooner that what happened shouldn’t have done. You’re not in that place.
“I’ve said many times to friends, given the same circumstances, of course I would’ve done things differently. You have to factor in mental health, which people are too quick to dismiss, less so now. For the first time in my life I found myself in a very difficult place and I couldn’t get my head round it. It didn’t seem that significant to start the forest fire that was engulfing us.”
Keys and Gray both work in Qatar for state-backed broadcaster BeIN Sport. They were speaking to Morgan in Doha during the World Cup.
Former Everton and Scotland striker Gray, 66, spoke candidly about experiencing suicidal thoughts after leaving Sky. He told Morgan: “I’ve had a wonderful life – fortunate, lucky. I played 17 years as a footballer, glorious.
“Then I went to work in the sport I love for a new broadcaster (Sky) that was about to revolutionise football in the way it did and had 20 years there.
“I suddenly found myself in a really dark place [after being sacked]. The house surrounded by people. I knew I had done something wrong, of course I did, but I couldn’t compute it. My head was gone. If I hadn’t had my wife, I don’t know what I’d have done. Rachel is amazing, wonderful.
“I was close to going down the garden where I used to have a pond with a little bottle and a few pills. I was gonna nip down, I was that bad one day. People who know me will think, ‘You’re kidding.’ But it was horrible. I couldn’t work it out.
“ I knew I’d done wrong but for two weeks I couldn’t get out of the house, just surrounded by press and TV cameras and friends. Weird, really weird. But we’re through it now, I’m through it now. Yeah, Rachel and the kids [saved me], and pals, you know, friends. You learn who your friends are when something like that happens, I think we both did.”
If you are struggling and have suicidal thoughts, know you are not alone and that help is available. Please contact any one of the following. In the UK, you can call the Samaritans free on 116 123 (the number will not appear on your telephone bill) or email firstname.lastname@example.org. In America, The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a network of more than 160 crisis centres that provide a 24-hour-a-day service via a free hotline on 00-1-800-273-8255. Lifeline is a national charity providing all Australians experiencing a personal crisis with access to 24-hour crisis support and suicide prevention services. Call 13-11-14. Help is ALWAYS available. If you need it, reach out.